our two boys (8 and 9 years old) came home one day for dinner and starting giggling and talking about this video cover they saw at the neighbors. they said the neighbor was cleaning out his car and asked the boys to watch his stuff while he went inside his house. well the boys got nosy and started to look inside a box. they happened to find a VHS porno tape cover and it had pictures on the back of it. they asked me (mom) if i lick daddy's penis like a lolly pop and if so they never want to kiss me again. i was shocked and didn't know what to say. then they started to ask about sex. luckily i had just recorded Oprah a few nights before because it was about this 10 year old girl asking about sex and how you should talk to your kids about sex. we ended up fast forwarding to the 10 year old where they showed diagrams of the female and male organs. we then had to inform the kids to not talk to other kids about this because it is something that parents should teach their own kids. since our discussion with the boys we haven't had many questions, surprisingly.